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Archives for September 2011

New Bloggers Are Like Teenagers

by Margie Clayman

This fantastic post is by Brandon P. Duncan!

Brandon Duncan is the author of Brandon the Duncan – Fatherhood in 4L, a dad blog. In addition to writing there, he also participates in several online writing clubs, contributes to multiple other sites, and is currently working on a children’s book. Connect with him at brandontheduncan.com.

Not long ago, we were all teens. We all had a parental figure; and most of us thought they were kind of dumb—until we grew up a little. Now we see that they were actually pretty smart and knew what they were talking about. Guess what? That’s you now. You are a parent, a role model, or the cool uncle or aunt to someone. How, you ask?

There are many new bloggers out there right now, and most of them are like teenagers. They’re bulletproof. They’re all going to be successful and blow out the glass ceiling. They’re going to be rich with no effort. I mean, “how hard can it really be?!”

You’re shaking your head right now, aren’t you?

I know you are, because I’m that teen, and I see what you pro-bloggers and experts are trying to do for me… I just don’t know how to process it all—yet. You know what you are talking about; you just forgot what it was like to be new—to be a teen.

I’m going to compare a few statements that we all either heard from our parents, used ourselves as teens, or have heard from our teens to some lessons in social media and blogging. Maybe these will help you refocus some of your helpful efforts.

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Filed Under: Marketing Talk

The Great Unfollowing of 2011: We’re All Better Than This

by Margie Clayman

OK, OK. Everyone, it seems, is talking about the people who are unfollowing hundreds of thousands of people on Twitter and then following back 2-300 people. Chris Brogan did it first. Then Michael Hyatt, and now I guess other people are falling like a chain of dominoes.

I am not happy that people who have been role models in the online world are doing this all at once, all at the same time, and I have two reasons for that. First, whether it’s intended or not, I think it bespeaks a desire to close ranks, create cliques, or otherwise create a list of “who’s cool” and who ain’t. In addition, I worry about people who are just getting started. If these well-respected folks aren’t following anyone new back, it’s going to be thousands of times harder for those people to break through the granite ceiling that is success in this space.

At the same time, I look in wonder at the folks who are just so beyond flustered at this, to the point where they are badmouthing these people in the broad Twitter stream. Is it worth it? Do you want to look like a jerk just because Darren Rowse unfollowed you? I don’t really get that.

Above all else though, this whole chain of events – the initiation of the unfollowings, the reactions, the back-and-forth, the squabbling on Twitter and in blogs – it bespeaks a lack of health in the online world. It makes us all look really, really juvenile. Do your customers want to see you cursing the big names? If you’re here on behalf of a nonprofit, is it going to help a lot of people to lament that some people are unfollowing other people on Twitter?

I know there are some deep-seated feelings on all sides of this issue. I totally get it. I understand both sides, all sides, 100%. But seriously, people, after the last week, isn’t it clear that this is not worth our time? Isn’t it clear that there’s much more to life than who is following who on a website? Have we not graduated beyond this level of micro-analysis, pettiness, shallowness, and other nesses?

This is the last I’m going to say about this issue. I’ve voiced my opinions, I’ve tried to intercede where people were becoming unreasonable. If you want to juggle your professionalism with complaining about stuff like this, I guess that’s cool. By the same token, if you want to spend your time following and unfollowing and then refollowing people, that’s cool too. I’m on to other stuff though, okay? I hope you’ll join me.

Image by Ruth Livingstone. http://www.sxc.hu/profile/Rbut

Filed Under: Marketing Talk

TweetDiner – Social Media for Social Good

by Margie Clayman

As mentioned a few weeks ago, we’re going to be starting a new TweetDiner chat series that will begin on Saturday, September 17th and will carry on through to the end of the year. The idea of this series is to accentuate the positive. It seems (to me at least) that a lot of gloom is clouding over what can really be great about social media. Hopefully, through these weekly chats, we’ll be able to remind each other of all of the great things people are doing online – and the great potential the online world still carries. I’ve tried to intersperse a few different platforms for chats as well so that if Twitter isn’t your favorite chat platform, you can still participate.

With that, here’s the plan!

Saturday, September 17th 9 PM EST: What is bothering you most about the online world today? (TWITTER)

Tuesday, September 20th 7 PM EST: What is bothering you most about the online world today? (GOOGLE PLUS)

Saturday, September 24th 9 PM EST: Who are the most positive/inspiring people you follow in the online world? (TWITTER)

Saturday, October 1st 9 PM EST: What are the best ways to use Twitter for social good? (TWITTER)

Saturday, October 8th 9 PM EST: What are the best ways to use Facebook for social good? (TWITTER)

Thursday, October 13th, 7 PM EST: Your Favorite Facebook causes, pages, and groups – A diner link dump (FACEBOOK)

Saturday, October 15th 9 PM EST: Blogging for Social Good, An introduction (TWITTER)

Saturday, October 22 9 PM EST: Your favorite blogs that promote social good (and why!) (TWITTER)

Tuesday, October 27th 7 PM EST: Your favorite blogs that promote social good (and why!) (GOOGLE PLUS)

Saturday, October 29th: Day off for trick-or-treating!

Saturday, November 5th 9 PM EST: How to use Google Plus for social good (TWITTER)

Wednesday, November 9th 7 PM EST: How to use Google Plus for social good (GOOGLE PLUS)

Saturday, November 12th 9 PM EST: Can a brand benefit from engaging in online activities promoting social good? (TWITTER)

Saturday, November 19th 9 PM EST: What are you thankful for? Open Mic! (TWITTER)

Saturday, November 26th: Day off for Turkey Day!

Saturday, December 3rd 9 PM EST: What obstacles are in the way of promoting social good online? (TWITTER)

Saturday, December 10th 9 PM EST: The most memorable uses of social media for social good -what impressed you and why? (TWITTER)

Tuesday, December 13th 7 PM EST: Your favorite holiday season causes – a diner link dump! (FACEBOOK)

Saturday, December 17th 9 PM EST: The best example – Mark Horvath and InvisiblePeople.TV (TWITTER)

Wednesday, December 21st 7 PM EST: Happy Chanukah – What miracles can social media make real for people in the world? (GOOGLE PLUS)

Friday, December 30 9 PM EST: TweetDiner sends out 2011 (open Mic) (TWITTER)

I’m sure some of you are wondering what the Facebook “link dumps” are. I sort of am too! But my vision is that because it’s so easy to tag pages and causes, we would just mention them on the Tweetdiner page, and then it would be easy for people to click over and check out what everyone is posting. This would make the page a great resource for anyone wanting to engage in social good over the next few months because everything would be linked there. Also this would provide our community with a way to show appreciation to those groups and causes.

Any ideas, questions, concerns, or suggestions? Please let me know!

Image Credit: http://www.sxc.hu/profile/HalloweenH


Filed Under: Crafts and Charity, Marketing Talk

Margie Clayman Interviews Janice Person of Monsanto

by Margie Clayman

For as long as I’ve known about Monsanto, I have only ever seen bad news about them. I first heard the name when I read Animal Vegetable Miracle. Then I heard about them again when I watched Food Inc.

One of the wonders of the world of social media is that pretenses you bring from your own life can be popped like a big bubble. Whenever I pictured Monsanto I pictured a sort of Earthly rendition of the Emperor’s crew from Star Wars. Guys dressed all in black, kind of scary looking, and very mean, for sure.

It was that perception I had in mind when a conversation began that would lead to this post. See, as some of you know, back in July I asked my community to give me topics for posts that I would write throughout August. My friend Janice, to whom I’ve been talking online for just about a year, recommended I write a post relating to farming. I’ve known her to be  a highly engaged and supportive member of the farming community, so I said sure, and I said I already had an idea in mind.

“I’m thinking I’ll write something about stupid Monsanto and why they’re so mean to farmers.”

Janice tweeted me back. “You know I work for Monsanto, right?” Sure enough, this information had been in her Twitter bio for as long as I’d known her, but I had missed it. Whether I just am not cued in to peoples’ bios or whether my own vision of Monsanto had blinded me, I had not made the connection at all. After extracting my foot from my Twitter mouth, it seemed we had an opportunity to provide a good conversation to our mutual communities. I asked Janice if I could interview her not necessarily about Monsanto (I’m not Barbara Walters) but rather about how a brand can deal with a person like me in the online world. How does Janice, as part of Monsanto’s PR department, deal with all of the bad press one sees in the line realm? Janice gracious agreed to reply despite a move to a different state, and here is what we came up with.

1. A lot of people say that a brand must be understood from the highest position right down to the lowest rung on the ladder. It’s clear the message Monsanto wants to get out there is “We’re friends of the farmer.” Is everyone trained the same way on that message?

Monsanto had other businesses than agriculture in the past – the chemical business and sweeteners are among the most well known. Before I got to the company, agriculture became a standalone entity. It’s important for our employees to have the knowledge that as a business, we succeed when farmers succeed – after all, farmers are our customers. We’ve focused on that internally for a number of years. In the last couple of years though we’ve done more to communicate this vision externally too.

2. There are a lot of things about Monsanto that people really don’t like – how do you go about changing a company’s image for people who are so squarely set in their opinions?

When I see people who have defined opinions I disagree with on a one-on-one basis, like the conversations I have with some people on social media, I try to listen and ask questions when I hear people say things that are in direct conflict with my experience. I like to know why they think some of the things they do, whether they’ve talked directly to customers and if they would be willing to hear my experience or that of farmer customers. In fact, that’s what happened with you and I after months of having known each other through social media.   Social media is a venue where anyone can manipulate or control messages broadly, from our viewpoint, social media provides an opportunity for broad discussion. That is where Monsanto’s social media efforts are — we want to participate in the dialog about our business and agriculture more broadly.   Since I came to Monsanto a few years ago, I’ve become much more aware of critics who also have their own agenda. And quite frankly some critics have found it’s financially rewarding to spread misinformation. There are some people so entrenched in a belief talking can’t be productive, but many people are open to the conversation.   When criticism gets on a larger scale, I usually try to look at from the standpoint of trying to understand the context of the topic which can get left out. Having so many farmers and ranchers active on social media helps me gain additional perspective on various topics of discussion.

3. How has social media helped your PR efforts? How has it hurt?

By being active in social media, people can find us if they are interested in what we have to say – both good and bad to that I guess. Transparency provided in social media is vastly different and we’re seeing more and more farmers out here, each able to offer their individual opinions. That helps people understand things aren’t always back and white.  One of the benefits of social media is real people and faces are part of the conversation, not just a logo. We hear customers point to this as well as people who may not have known much about us previously. It also lets us participate in real-time discussions and reach large groups of people. Over time this may be able to keep some of the myths from taking as firm a hold as they had in the past.   Real-time and mass distribution are also tough things to deal with when something new is talked about. We are pushed to move faster than with other media and when some of the things we see are technically complex, we have to be sure we remain scientifically accurate. That means there are times when we have to tell people we will get back to them.

4. There have been instances in the past where Monsanto has been attacked and the company did not respond. In retrospect, do you think it would have been better for the company to engage? Do you think Social Media is forcing companies to engage with critics more?

If you don’t mind, on the first part…. I’m not sure whether it has been a responding or not getting the response to all the interested audiences which can be perceived that we haven’t always responded. The internet made information more accessible to people but with social media, it’s easier for information to be included in the conversation about that information.   Now, it is easier for people to hear from the company, our customers and employees directly instead of getting it filtered. We also have a lot more opportunity to interact with people. And we get to be in the conversations so much more often –we can tweet with farmers regularly about things they are seeing as do others. For that, social media has been amazing.

As far as engaging with our critics more, social media allows for more engagement with the critics. However, I see a lot of critics, not just of Monsanto, looking only for those things which support the viewpoint they already have. So I’m not so sure we engage more directly with critics. There are probably some things that answering doesn’t have anything constructive to it – one of my farmer friends uses “when was the last time you beat your wife/husband/kids?” as the “no win” question.   It tends to be more the people somewhere in the middle of the spectrum that this has helped us, and agriculture in general, reach. With that in mind, we don’t get painted with the same broad brush we may have before.

What lessons can you derive from this interview for your own brand or business? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Filed Under: Marketing Talk, Musings

I Don’t Hate You. I Didn’t Misunderstand You. I Just Don’t Like What You’re Doing

by Margie Clayman

Imagine the following scenario with me, won’t you please?

It’s 1858, and you’re living in the Wild West, aka Illinois. There’s a pretty hotly contested senatorial race going on between the very well respected Democrat, Stephen A. Douglas, and some lanky dude named Abraham Lincoln. The two men have been engaging in debates all over the state, and they’re coming to your town. You’ve heard these things are pretty interesting, so you decide to go.

The first question is tossed out and Lincoln answers first. His response is thoughtful and creative and he really gets the crowd on his side. After he is done, it’s Douglas’ turn, and he rebuffs most of what Lincoln has said. The language is pretty sharp and pointed, but this guy really believes what he’s saying.

There’s a pregnant pause.

Then suddenly, Lincoln throws his hands up in the air, turns to the crowd in exasperation, and says, “I can’t talk to this guy. He’s just a hater!” Then Lincoln walks away.

That would be such a bummer, wouldn’t it?

Of course, the Lincoln-Douglas debates didn’t really go down that way. Both men were passionate about what they believed in. They had different ways of bringing their points to the crowds they talked to. But neither of them were reduced to to unprofessionalism on the platform, at least so far as the history books are concerned.

We could learn something here.

Debate, Civil Debate, is Extremely Fun

The fact of the matter is that debate, when conducted with care and civility, is actually really fun, especially if you’re truly passionate about what you’re saying. In the online world, there is plenty of stuff we could debate. We could debate how to follow people or unfollow people on Twitter. We could debate which platform is the most advantageous for parents or for business or for anything else. We could debate all kinds of stuff.

We could, in an ideal world.

Unfortunately, it seems the art of civil debate has fallen by the wayside just at the point when there is a medium that could accommodate it like no other.

Criticism that hits below the belt

Part of the problem is that a lot of people who could throw out a topic for debate instead throw sticks and stones. For example, instead of saying, “I disagree with what you said there,” people write posts or tweet, “Dude, what a dirt bag.” (OK, they don’t say dirt, but I’m not going to use the real word they say here). Instead of saying, “Here is why I think this person’s methodologies could be harmful,” people say, “Hey, you’re an a-hole and I hate you.”

It’s kind of hard to build a civil debate on that kind of foundation, right?

At the same time, though, people who may on occasion receive criticism, legitimate but perhaps sharply worded, have taken to reacting like they are Zeus come down from Olympus. “What? Um, are you saying I’m doing something wrong?” Sometimes people in the online world act as if disagreement is akin to being beaten up. They ask for sympathy when someone criticizes them. Other times still, disagreement is simply grouped into the ,”Well, I guess they hate me” category.

All of these things are useless. They make everybody look like toddlers (and I mean no offense to any toddlers who may read this).

Be open to being imperfect

When someone disagrees with you or criticizes something you are doing, do not automatically put all shields up and assume you are being attacked. Maybe someone has a legitimate point to make. Maybe someone is actually trying to protect you from making yourself look like a jerk, even if they don’t have the best way of verbalizing that.  Here, repeat these things as your mantra.

“I am not being bullied if someone disagrees with me. I am just experiencing someone disagreeing with me.”

“Perhaps this person is offering sage wisdom. I will listen first and call them a hater later.” That rhymes so it’s more fun to say.

“Maybe I am not being misunderstood and maybe someone still doesn’t like this. Perhaps I need to look at this from their perspective.”

Practice saying those things to yourself. I mean, literally, aloud. Here, let’s try it right here. Do you disagree with what I’m saying here? I’m ready and waiting to add to my way of thinking, and I very probably will not hate you after you voice your opinion.

Have at it!

Image by B S K. http://www.sxc.hu/profile/spekulator

Filed Under: Musings

Let’s Talk About…A New Series

by Margie Clayman

In trying to think about blog topics lately, I’ve kind of gotten a bit itchy. If a lot of people were writing how-to posts before I started my engagement series, even more people are writing them now. And besides, now that I’ve been in the online world for a bit, I am acutely, nay, keenly aware that what works for 1 person may not necessarily for you or you or you. So what can I write about?

Well, I am embarking on a big experiment, and I hope you will help me out. Instead of me just spouting out “This is how to do this,” I thought it would be neat for us to actually converse. You know, I frame out a topic and offer my advice, and then you add to that advice or ask additional questions.

That’s right – I am not framing myself as an expert. I’m just framing my blog as a place to talk about stuff. Think of it like the cafeteria or the student center.

These are the topics I was thinking of but this schedule can be changed as new questions come up. Ready?

Friday, September 16: Let’s Talk About How To Get Started Curating Content

Monday, September 19: Let’s Talk About The Advantages of Curating Content

Wednesday, September 21: Let’s Talk About Getting That First Reply on Twitter

Friday, September 23: Let’s Talk About Some Great Ways To Retweet Content on Twitter

Monday, September 26: Let’s Talk About How To Benefit From Twitter Chats

Wednesday, September 28: Let’s Talk About Following And Unfollowing on Twitter

Friday, September 30: Let’s Talk About How To Use Twitter for Business

Monday, October 3: Let’s Talk About Google Plus. Do You Like It?

Wednesday, October 5: Let’s Talk About How Google Plus Could Work for Businesses

Friday, October 7: Let’s Talk About How We Could Borrow the Google Plus Model of Integrated Tactics

Monday, October 10: Let’s Talk About Facebook and Your Kids. Is It Safe?

Wednesday, October 12: Let’s Talk About How To Make The Most Of A Facebook Page

Friday, October 14: Let’s Talk About How To Use Facebook For Business

Monday, October 17: Let’s Talk About The Facebook vs. Google Plus Death Match.

Wednesday, October 19: Let’s Talk About Using Video To Promote Your Business

Friday, October 21: Let’s Talk About Best and Worst Ways To Use QR Codes

Monday, October 24: Let’s Talk About How To Start A Blog

Wednesday, October 26: Let’s Talk About Blog Platforms

Friday, October 28: Let’s Talk About Blog Design

Monday, October 31: Let’s Talk About How To Get More Blog Comments

Wednesday, November 2: Let’s Talk About Blog Traffic And Blog Promotion

Friday, November 4: Let’s Talk About Integrating Traditional Marketing With Social Media

Monday, November 7: Let’s Talk About Using Social Media For Social Good

Wednesday, November 9: Let’s Talk About Industries That Can Use Social Media More

Friday, November 11: Let’s Talk About Industries That Might Not Need Social Media Right Now

Monday, November 14: Let’s Talk About How To Identify Online Bullying

Wednesday, November 16: Let’s Talk About How We Can Stop/Prevent Online Bullying

Friday, November 18: Let’s Talk About How To Keep Kids Safe Online

Monday, November 21: Let’s Talk About Whether You Need To Start Mobile Marketing

Wednesday, November 23: Let’s Talk About What We’re Thankful For

Monday, November 28: Let’s Talk About The Best Books To Buy For The Holidays!

Wednesday, November 30: Let’s Talk About Our Favorite Online Charities

Friday, December 2: Let’s Talk About Talking About Things – A Series Recap

So there you have it. That’s the plan. Want to blog along with me and link your posts as we go along? Great. Have other topics you’d like to see or questions about what I have?

Hey…let’s talk about it!

Image by Martin Lundgren. http://www.sxc.hu/profile/alvaspappa

Filed Under: Uncategorized

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