six reasons why engagement isn’t making you money

It’s entirely possible that, having stopped by this site and checking out the engagement series here, you think I’m a liar, a fraud, or perhaps a bit drugged. You’ve been trying to engage with people online for months now. Your business has not grown. You still barely get any responses on Twitter and you’re about ready to give up on your blog because it’s just you and the crickets most of the time.

Before you burn me or your blog in effigy, let me toss out some things that might be getting in your way. If none of those seem to apply, then we can have thumb wars!

1. No clear objective: We’ve talked about this a lot here, and a lot of you brought it up yesterday in the discussion about passion in blogging. You have to know what you’re trying to do in order to get there. You have to know what you want people to know about you before you interact with them. You have to know how you want to grow your business before you can.

2. Not engaging with the right people: With a clear objective comes a strategy for engaging with the right people. In an ideal world, you’d be able to interact with people you like, or people who, like you, really love talking about dogs, golf, horse races, or other passions. But if you want to grow your business, you need to talk to people who don’t know you already and who would be interested in what you are offering from a business standpoint. You can also find people who have objectives that parallel yours so that you can have great conversation without worrying about being competitive.

3. Not speaking the right language: Have you ever tried to tell someone who is not in your business about your  business? One day, I was really excited because a post of mine had been tweeted a number of times. I mentioned this to a friend in passing. That friend’s picture is now in Wikipedia beside the definition of “blank stare.” If you want to engage in ways that will build your business, you need to make sure you’re talking the way your prospects and customers would talk. Talking like you talk will just attract other people who are like you and who may even be competitors of yours.

4. Mistaking “personable” with “personal”: This is a very common misunderstanding in the world of Social Media. A lot of people begin tweeting or blogging with the understanding that mentioning your business or why you’re really there is bad. You have to be personal (aka human, authentic, transparent – whatever you might call it). In fact, though, this will only help you make friends. A great addition to any life, but not necessarily helpful for business. You want to be personable. In other words, you don’t want to blog your news releases and tweet your blue light specials 24/7. But if you only focus on the *personal* you will not grow your business for one simple reason – people will not have a clue as to what you do.

5. Sex, Religion, Politics: A lot of people feel that it’s their Social Media party and they’ll tweet what they want to. I can understand that sentiment, bu if you want to grow your business, it’s important to tread lightly on issues that tend to be divisive. If your religion or your politics are deciding factors in who you work with, that’s a different scenario, but otherwise, neutrality is usually the best online strategy. That person you offend might have been your next big customer.

6. A Focus on Quantity, not Quality: This is huge. There is so much emphasis on numbers in Social Media that people have lost track of what those numbers really mean. If you have 20,000 followers but only 500 are potential customers, you should really view your statistics as having 500 high quality followers. If your company page on Facebook has 647 fans but over half of them click to your website when you post information, you’re doing pretty well. For business, numbers don’t mean anything unless you’re converting them into sales.

So what do you think? Do any of these obstacles ring true to you? Are there obstacles you think might get in the way of engagement helping you grow your business? Let’s hear what you would add!

This is post #53 in the engagement series. I hope you enjoyed it!

Image by Gabriella Fabbri. http://www.sxc.hu/profile/duchesssa

9 Comments

  1. Kristen Robinson on May 14, 2011 at 7:24 am

    Great post Margie! I love how you wrote about quantity over quality. Most people think that if they have a high number of followers that they’re reputable and that’s not necessarily true. It’s what you say; your content. Thanks for laying that out!

    • Margie Clayman on May 14, 2011 at 4:53 pm

      Well, I think you said it better than I did, but yes, this is a common area of misdirection in Social Media, I think at many peoples’ peril.

      Thanks for your comment!

  2. Kyle Thill on May 14, 2011 at 8:54 am

    Good points, I’m all over number two. Seems to be the one most critical. It seems to me that connecting with the right people is THE act all of us need to focus on, the rest of the list merits concern only after having done that. Great post, thank you.

    • Margie Clayman on May 14, 2011 at 4:54 pm

      It definitely helps, right? People who aren’t interested in your products or services may be sympathetically attentive, even friendly, but they aren’t going to buy, and alas, our society still requires that green stuff 🙂

  3. Brandon on May 14, 2011 at 1:09 pm

    Ahh, Margie… #4, #4, #4… Hit that snag a few times…

    I was very engaged with a few people on one venture in particular. A few months down the road when I asked a question (dealing with business, no less) I got the response… “Babe, I don’t even know what you do!” I could’ve died. All that time and they had no clue. I assumed it my me, flighty friend or not. I was probably right.

    Great tips. Thank you!

    • Margie Clayman on May 14, 2011 at 4:55 pm

      I think a lot of people hit that snag. In fact, there are a few “big names” who most likely have a job, but I have no idea what that would be. Always assume that people know less about you than you might think, because it’s probably true 🙂

  4. Corinne Edwards on May 14, 2011 at 2:21 pm

    Dear Margie –

    This one should have been put in bold and in caps.

    “Sex, Religion, Politics: A lot of people feel that it’s their Social Media party and they’ll tweet what they want to. I can understand that sentiment, bu if you want to grow your business, it’s important to tread lightly on issues that tend to be divisive. If your religion or your politics are deciding factors in who you work with, that’s a different scenario, but otherwise, neutrality is usually the best online strategy. That person you offend might have been your next big customer.”

    Worst mistake of all. Mostly, if you notice, you never convert anyone to your point of view. Preaching to the choir. Getting people who liked you before mad.

    I know someone whose two long term friends unfriended them on Facebook.

  5. Nancy Davis on May 14, 2011 at 2:50 pm

    All of these make a lot of sense. I work very hard at putting myself in front of the right people and talking about more than just me. My bosses want to know the ROI of me having friends on Twitter and I keep telling them that it is not so easy to quantify. It does have me thinking that I wonder if anyone knows what I do for a living (I do actually work)

    How do I quantify meeting someone from Twitter face to face and learning so much from them? How do I put a number on that? I have friendships on Twitter that have taught me so much. I get smarter just hanging around with the rest of you.

    The thing I do not do is the sex, politics and religion talks. I stay away from those at all costs. This has got me thinking, that is always a good thing.

    • Margie Clayman on May 14, 2011 at 4:56 pm

      Actually, you’ve mentioned your boss a few times but I don’t think I know what you do 🙂 Hehee 🙂

      Quantification is going to have to be redefined when it comes to Social Media in that people are going to have to adjust to a situation where quality really truly does mean more than quantity. That’s going to be a big hurdle to jump over with things like Klout and automatic follower things for Twitter floating around, but eventually, Social Media will evolve from a sort of game-type thing to a tool for business.

      Right? 🙂

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