Hey, I care about you
I was watching CBS Sunday Morning as I am wont to do and there was a story about the awesome organization called Operation Gratitude. It was started by a stay-at-home mom right around 9/11 and is going strong 10 years later. The founder, Carolyn Blashek, told the story of how she was inspired to start the group.
One day, as she was working at her volunteer job at the airport, a distraught soldier came in to talk to her. He was home to bury his mother. His wife had left him and his infant daughter had died. He said, “I have nobody who cares about me now. I’m going off to war and I don’t even care if I make it back. No one will care if I don’t.”
Carolyn was struck by this and started Operation Gratitude so that soldiers abroad would know that they had a reason to come home. They had someone out there who cared.
Over the last few days, in tweets I’ve seen and posts I’ve read, the stress of the last year has become almost tangible. It’s holiday time. Is it harder to get your kids all of those presents they want? Is it hard to go without a big tree this year? Is it hard to wonder where you and your family will be at this time next year? Or does it seem like you’ll never get to a place where the holidays can be happy for you? Does it feel like no one out there really cares about you?
I don’t care about being sappy if it makes you smile
In the online world, we are all sort of floating along like those clumps of seaweed you see on the tips of ocean waves. Sometimes we clump together, other times we just float on by.
If there is any time of year when we should clump together, it’s now. If there’s any year when this time of year should be a clump together time, it may be this year. The world is so full of uncertainty. The toll of numerous years of economic turmoil is weighing heavily on people. And 2012? Well, it’s still a great big mystery, isn’t it?
So how do we clump together? Well, I’m reaching out to you here, with this post, and I’m saying that even if you are feeling low right now…even if you didn’t meet even one of your goals for this year…even if you are sure that no one really cares about you…I care. There’s probably not much I can do for you, and that’s frustrating. But I’m here. And other people are here who care about you. And I bet you’re there for someone else who may be feeling the same way.
Sure, this is what some people might call sappy stuff, but if my being sappy lets one person feel a little better for a short period of time, heck, that’s an easy trade, isn’t it?
These are hard times, and many people, to quote Bill Murray in Scrooged, are having a hard time getting their miracle to happen. Now is a great time to reach out to people and say, “You know what, you’re awesome. And I’m proud to know you.”
Hey. You’re awesome. And I’m proud to know you.
Hang in there.
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Margie,
Hey. You’re awesome. And I’m proud to know you.
IMHO – should be said all the time!
@dabarlow I’d have to agree with ya there, Denise. Thanks for the comment!
Back at cha’!
@mantywebdesigns *smush*
I care about you too. I love this post, thanks for sharing the love.
@jennimacdonald Thanks, Jenni. Easy to say, isn’t it? So why don’t we do it more? Humans are just plain silly 🙂
Sending virtual internet huggs right back at you, Margie! ;^)
@TomRedwine Thanks Tom 🙂 You rock!
Margie: this was a really nice post. I saw that same story on CBS Morning Show, and got all weepy eyed. This year, we are doing small felt Christmas stockings with a little chocolate in them for every one of the 66 people who will wake up in our local homeless shelter on Christmas morning. We just want them to know that someone is thinking about them, wishes them well, and offers a little sweetness. It’s not much, but it’s something. Sometimes just saying, “hey, I see you … I wish you well… I want to help” can go a long way. We can all do SOMETHING. There are no small gestures. Thanks to YOU for putting some goodness out into the interwebs every day…
And I care about you; fortunately I have things headed in the right direction so I have plenty of care to give.
Here’s to a joyful, rewarding and prosperous 2012.
Margie, I missed this post completely!
When I was deployed in Desert Storm I received letters and care packages from groups like this and made some wonderful friends of the people that wrote these letters that have lasted to this day.
It is so important. I means so much to men and women, some barely more than girls and boys (I was 17-18 years old during Desert Storm), and whether there is loving family, spouses, children and friends at home or not, to know perfect strangers are taking time out of their lives to write you a letter (3 of mine turned into pen-pals that lasted for 10 years or more)… well, it reminds each one of our soldiers that they are standing FOR us and in FRONT of us to PROTECT us and our ways of life and right…
..or at least that is how I feel. Thanks for remembering to share this with everyone. I had forgotten. I wont again. I’ve already been to the Letters to Heros / Operation Gratitude website and I am also going to include it in our home-school project.
God Bless You, Marjorie. Your more recent posts (I’ve been playing catch-up AGAIN) mention that you (I read…) feel like you are “all over the place”. I don’t think so- you seem to hit the important stuff of life as it hits you, one way or another.
Thanks, again.
Amber-Lee